Whether you are single or partnered, Intimacy is a basic human need that we all deserve. While the state of the economy leaves much to be desired, it can be easy to feel like dates (and solo dates) are simply not in budget. Here are some great examples of how to celebrate yourself or your partner without breaking the bank.
1: Geocaching
A fun, fresh take on a scavenger hunt that is free and available in most countries. Just download the app and make sure you have your data on so you can follow the GPS to the hidden caches. Remember to bring tiny gifts to replace the ones you find.
2: Create a Foraged Cocktail!
We all know it’s loquat season in Bermuda, but there are always plenty of edible ingredients available to get creative with your seasonal cocktails. Check out this recipe for loquat simple syrup below:
3: Create a Date Bucket List
Fill this list with fun but achievable goals such as: filling a jar with conversation notes, making movie-themed food, making chocolate covered strawberries, creating a date playlist etc
4: Try Tantric Breathing Techniques
A solo person can practice this by giving themself a slow sensual massage, breathing deeply with the intention of connecting to their higher self and practicing affirmations, while watching in the mirror.
A partnered couple can practice this by syncing their breath together, and then to deepen the practice, the couple can implement eye gazing and affirmations.
5: Create your own Wildflower Bouquet
Bermuda has gorgeous flowers and plants available year-round.
6: Pleasure Mapping
Running your hands or sensory instruments along the body for the purpose of noticing the areas that feel the best to yourself or your partner is a fun way to look for erogenous zones that are often missed during traditional foreplay or sex.
7: Pseudo Spa Treatment at Home
Create a zen environment at home, with candles or aromatherapy, soft music and low lighting to set the stage. You could also make a small charcuterie board to snack on, while doing nails, facials and massage treatments on yourself and/or your partner. We all deserve to be pampered.
